“Who can know God’s counsel, or who can conceive what the LORD intends? For the deliberations of mortals are timid, and unsure are our plans,” Wisdom 9:13-14.
How many times have we been offered the gift of wisdom—only to brush it aside or fail to fully embrace it? If we’re honest, most of us can probably count more missed opportunities for guidance than we’d like to admit. When I was younger and facing important life decisions, my parents and grandparents would gently share their insights, hard-won through years of experience. My grandmother often began with the words, “If only I knew then what I know now…” At the time, I listened half-heartedly. Like many young people, I believed my path was unique, and that their stories couldn’t possibly apply to my circumstances.
Now, as a grandmother myself, I smile at the memory of my youthful arrogance. How clearly I hear their voices now—words of love, morality, and faith that echo in my heart. Though my father and grandmother have long since passed, the wisdom they shared still shapes me. With the perspective of age and experience, I see their counsel in a new light—and how deeply it was rooted in care. I can’t help but wonder if history is now repeating itself as I offer guidance to my own children and grandchildren. It’s a delicate balance—hoping to offer helpful, heartfelt wisdom while avoiding the impression of giving unsolicited advice or lecturing. My prayer is that, over time, they will come to recognize that this wisdom is offered in love—a desire to protect, to guide, and to share what life has taught me.
Today’s readings remind us of the immense value and divine source of true wisdom. Wisdom comes from God, often flowing through unexpected sources—those who may be overlooked, underestimated, or unheard. It calls us to stay humble, open, and attentive to those God places in our path. At the same time, these scriptures caution us to be discerning. Not all “wisdom” is holy. Voices of influence, power, or wealth can carry persuasive messages that serve their own interests. We must weigh such counsel carefully, asking whether it leads to peace, justice, and truth—or to division, fear, and self-interest.
Ultimately, we are reminded that human plans are limited and often uncertain. It is only through God’s gift of wisdom—and the guidance of the Holy Spirit—that our paths are made straight. May we all seek God’s wisdom with open hearts, and may we become vessels of that wisdom for others—not perfectly, but prayerfully and with love.
